Hello I am a lolita housewife. And I have not done an intro but soon will. I have been wondering do any of you Lolita's have crazy, mean, or over bearing in laws? If so how do you deal with them in a way that represents the grace and gentility befitting the lolita style? I ask because my mother in law is....difficult at times, and my husband often tells me to just ignore her but I really want to be kind but without making a big deal about it or sticking my neck out too far. If this isn't allowed please delete! Thanks! Tootles.